"Girl did you read what Scooby tweeted?"
"Nah Girl what he say?"
"He tweeted, Yeah baby yes you have got some nice ones"
"Oh did Shannon see it? Because if she didn't I'm about to indirect her"
This is the year of the social network. From social networks comes social problems, that leads to anti-social behavior. In my example above you can see how one tweet can ruin a relationship. You see this is the epic battle between context clues and just regular statement.
Tweeting a statement as our friend Scooby tweeted could have been taken every direction but the right one. The "LURKERS" that's what they call themselves assumed he was in the presence of a person that was very attractively dressed to him.
Not once did they consider Scooby was watching a movie with his favorite actress Tisha Campbell. Nor did they consider he could be quoting a line from a movie "House Party".
Their main focus was to alert his girlfriend/friend and not nessarly snitch but be messy. She would scroll her timeline to see if any one's tweet could correspond with poor Scooby. Now he has to defend his post which is a failed effort because a woman is the judge and her friends are the Jury (Verdict Guilty... until proven innocent).
"I Miss you"
"Miss You too"
"umph"
"Huh?"
"Who is this B*t**, writing on your WALL!!!!?"
"Who you calling a B*t**, B*t**"
"Um You too chill out"
Yes, we all know that this is. Well every man in America does at least. The infamous facebook "WALL" fight. For people who have the pleasure to not have a facebook account I envy you in so many ways.
This is an way you can say hello to a friend on facebook without sending them a message. Most of the time harmless in nature but just like any cloud it can turn into a Hurricane really fast. In my example i showed how a post from a family member that you may have not talked to in years can turn drastic in the blink of an eye.
You see when a woman see's the words "Boo,Babe,Baby,Sweetie,Hun,Honey and even Bae" They lose their minds... First the battle begins on the wall, very brief may last for two day "There will be Blood".
By day three your girlfriend wants your password to all your emails and you facebook account. Men fight this and give them a bogus password and say they are entering it wrong. This bye's the man time to check his messages and delete anything from a simple "how is your mom doing?, or a classmate who really just wanted to exchange numbers for class/work purposes only.
By this time the accuser has gone through all his friends and pictures and if there is even a dog in the back ground she wants to know "who's dog is it, why and who shoe that is"... This ends friendships and relationships very fast. She goes from the best thing that ever happened to me to "Ohh Lord please just let her move and get a job in Africa, she CRAZZZYYY"
People lets be rational and stop letting these social networks control your love or trust for someone. If you go looking for things your mind creates this dream world of lies and what ifs. So a wave turns into a waving you off, or a reply that was not fast enough for you shows he/she is lying.
Social networks are just what they are. Yes some do use them for wrong reasons but not all. With that being said don't let your mind get lost in cyber space